There are two remarkable things in life.   The first is hindsight.  Hindsight is a wonderful tool and sometimes painful tool too learn our life lessons, and the second is a child’s point of view. When I was a child I tried to jump into adulthood as fast as I could.  I mostly enjoyed my childhood, but I wanted to grow up and be responsible and live my life – I loved the idea of independence.  Although at the time, I don’t think the word independence was the word I used.  I imagined my adult life a little different in terms of how it has worked out, but none the…